What does an ordinary Internet conversation between two people mean? And the fact that it is from this moment that your love relationship, a long happy marriage or a stormy romance can begin to emerge. How to correspond effectively, how to respond intriguingly or politely stop communicating, how to take the initiative and be the first to write to the man you like, making an indelible impression? That's what we're going to talk about now... Analysis of the first contact (message)So, you have received a message from a young man, where the most important thing for us is the content of the message and the data of the one who sent it. Many women attach too much importance to the first messages, trying to behave like teachers of Russian language and literature, thereby scaring off candidates who are quite suitable for them. Still, you should not forget that you are communicating on a dating site, and not sitting on the jury of some competition where grammatical and spelling mistakes play an important role.If you have already decided to get acquainted, then you should not ignore even the usual compliments, greetings or winks, which can develop into a longer acquaintance. Perhaps, at the other end of the monitor, your interlocutor is by no means a regular of such resources, and just came in to pass the time or try his luck, not realizing the seriousness of the possible development of events.It is better to save your ability to refuse everyone for other cases: the first message is too aggressive, with hints of sexual topics, the template text of the letter, etc. This should also include male dreamers who, after a few minutes or hours of dating, begin to talk about loving you and living together until marriage and the birth of children.We establish communication in correspondence or any other contact, you should not be too shy - ask the man questions, but, of course, without fanaticism, so that it does not look like an interrogation in the police. If he did not indicate his marital status in his questionnaire, then unobtrusively ask him a question on this topic, arguing this with your interest.You should also observe certain limits of decency, so as not to seem too frivolous and unpromising. In any case, do not ask about the amount of his salary and the make of the car, as well as about his appearance: height, weight, etc.As a rule, respectable men behave more confidently and adequately - they do not boast of their position in society and do not talk about the size of their financial condition (except in some cases). Ordinary men, on the contrary, overestimate their social and financial capabilities, sometimes at times. Therefore, be prepared for the development of such events.You are not a vest into which you can cry, do not limit yourself to only superficial communication, but you should not wipe someone's tears either: you can spend a lot of time listening to long stories about someone's failed life - do you need it? Successful and self-confident men do not talk snot about their personal lives to everyone they meet, but rather act and work more to achieve their success. And what if you don't like this person at all or you feel awkward when meeting in person... is it worth wasting your time on this?The Internet is full of men who have gone through a divorce or suffered a painful separation from their beloved: they are simply looking for someone to whom they can pour out their soul so that they do not suffer alone. Many men try to raise their self-esteem in this way, if the breakup did not occur on their initiative.Advice!Do not rush into the pool with your head, delving into all the features of their personal life, because you are not a person who collects other people's problems into your collection. Be a girl, a woman who is confident in her happy future, despite the fact that you don't have anyone right now.From whose side is the initiative coming?Be active, make it clear to the opposite sex that you really show sincere interest in his person, but also let him show this interest, you should not play one-sided. If you pull the blanket over yourself all the time, showing excessive initiative, then such a situation can quickly get bored, rather than help ignite a spark between you. Take breaks in communication, joke, linger with the answer to see how the interlocutor behaves, in some cases just agree by putting a nodding smiley face or writing "Yes".Of course, it is better to give a man the right to start a conversation about a first date, thereby giving him the opportunity to express himself and show his interest in your person.How can I politely refuse?The Internet is a limitless communication environment that knows no boundaries and nationalities. But it may happen that in a huge city you will start a correspondence with exactly the person you will have to meet later. And you don't have to think that this will never happen to you. No one has a 100% guarantee! Therefore, be correct and polite in the event that you decide to refuse, it does not matter now or after a while. For many, it is enough to hear the phrase "you are not my type" or "unfortunately, we are not suitable for each other" in order not to bother with your communication anymore.How long does it take to correspond?There is no definite answer here. Look at the situation. If a few phrases are enough for you to more or less understand a person, then this is your right, if not, wait as long as it takes.Many men are ready to meet almost immediately - this is not always a bad thing and indicates bad manners. Most likely, this is his interest in your personality and desire to get to know you better (not to be confused with sex). And if you agree to a date after several days or weeks of correspondence, then there will be nothing provocative and shameful about it, subject to certain safety rules: meeting in a crowded place (park, shopping center, exhibition, cinema, etc.), preferably in the afternoon, you should know his mobile phone number (before the meeting it is better it will be if you tell your friends or family about it), as well as roughly imagine what it looks like (on dating sites, almost all users have personal photos on their pages).And remember, the main thing to observe in such communication is politeness, a sense of humor and a sound mind. Often, on various dating sites, potential candidates face female arrogance and suspicion. Among all this mass, you should stand out, and the result will not take long to wait!Have a nice meeting! Obtenha acesso rápido e confiável a todos os bônus de cassino sem depósito em https://cassinosemdepsito.com em um clique. 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